Wherever you are there you are!
The 3 C's of Life: Choices, Chances and Changes.You must make a choice to take a chance or you will never change.
I am convinced after more than 50 years in the field of motivation that anyone who wants to learn to look at life and/or their circumstances in a positive light can do so.
Expect the best. Prepare for the worst. Capitalize on what comes.
It is not your aptitude, but your attitude, that determines your altitude.
You can disagree without being disagreeable.