People tend to have one of three 'styles' of interaction. There are takers, who are always trying to serve themselves; matchers, who are always trying to get equal benefit for themselves and others; and givers, who are always trying to help people.
Adam GrantThe more I help out, the more successful I become. But I measure success in what it has done for the people around me. That is the real accolade.
Adam GrantFocus attention and energy on making a difference in the lives of others, and success might follow as a by-product.
Adam Grant