When you're dealing with an ambivalent relationship, you're constantly on guard, grappling with questions of trust.
Adam GrantWhen you put off a task, you buy yourself time to engage in divergent thinking rather than foreclosing on one particular idea.
Adam GrantPeople tend to have one of three 'styles' of interaction. There are takers, who are always trying to serve themselves; matchers, who are always trying to get equal benefit for themselves and others; and givers, who are always trying to help people.
Adam Grant