We should keep a careful diary of our moments of envy: they are our covert guides to what we should try to do next.
Alain de BottonThe study of maps and the perusal of travel books aroused in me a secret fascination that was at times almost irresistible.
Alain de BottonThere's a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
Alain de BottonUnrequited love may be painful, but it is safely painful, because it does not involve inflicting damage on anyone but oneself, a private pain that is as bittersweet as it is self-induced. But as soon as love is reciprocated, one must be prepared to give up the passivity of simply being hurt and take on the responsibility of perpetrating hurt oneself.
Alain de BottonBeing incomprehensible offers unparalleled protection against having nothing to say...but writing with simplicity requires courage, for there is a danger that one will be overlooked, dismissed as simpleminded by those with a tenacious belief that the impassable prose is a hallmark of intelligence.
Alain de Botton