People will typically be more enthusiastic where they feel a sense of belonging and see themselves as part of a community than they will in a workplace in which each person is left to his own devices

When we do things that are controlling, whether intentional or not, we are not going to get those long-term outcomes.

How can we do our best when we are spending our energies trying to make others lose - and fearing that they will make us lose?

Students should not only be trained to live in a democracy when they grow up; they should have the chance to live in one today.

Unconditional parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason.

If unconditional love and genuine enthusiasm are present, praise isn't necessary. If they're absent, praise won't help.

Punishments and rewards are two sides of the same coin and that coin doesn't buy you much.