Get in the habit of writing down three things you're grateful for every day. Studies show that in a two-minute span of time, done over 21 days in a row, you can actually rewire your brain. Your brain starts to retain a pattern of scanning the world for the positive versus the negative. Seeing things in a frame of positivity and gratitude is a muscle. You can strengthen this muscle through practice.

Try to look at the bigger picture. The majority of people you date will not be your destination. They were meant to be a bridge. So find the lesson, the growth opportunity so you don't have to keep repeating your pattern and crossing that same bridge over and over again. Once you learn what you need to learn and become more self-aware and emotionally healthy, you will then cross another bridge, and one day you'll get to your destination.

Gratitude is a choice. Happiness is an attitude.

Integrity is when your good intentions meet your actions - on a consistent basis.

Strive to be authentic, not perfect.

You cannot teach ambition.

Hold yourself on your own. A man's job in a romantic dynamic is not to be your butler, bank account or your father.