What is a secret wish?" "It is what you want but cannot ask.

For unlike my mother, I did not believe I could be anything I wanted to be. I could only be me.

I feel I've always been writing about self-identity. How do we become who we are? So I'm just writing from experience what's concerned me.

And after I played them both a few times, I realized they were two halves of the same song.

I won't be what I'm not. -Jing-mei

So sad! This is the saddest part when you lose someone you love- that person keeps changing. And later you wonder, Is this the same person I lost?

You must think for yourself, what you must do. If someone tells you, then you are not trying. -An-mei