If you can't learn to do it well, learn to enjoy doing it badly.
How can there ever possibly be a conflict between my private interests and the public good?
We're still benefiting from the sacrifices of people long dead, but we're also suffering from their errors.
If you keep groaning, please do it to a rythmn I can dance to.
Forgive me now - tomorrow I may no longer feel guilty.
I don't have any solution, but I certainly admire the problem.