The Buddha compared anger with picking up hot coals with one's bare hands and trying to throw them at the person with whom one is angry. Who gets burned first? The one who is angry of course.
Ayya KhemaEventually we will find (mostly in retrospect, of course) that we can be very grateful to those people who have made life most difficult for us.
Ayya KhemaHalf the spiritual life consists of remembering what we are up against and where we are going.
Ayya Khema