Recognizing how totally ignorant you are is the only honest way to deal with people who've been through something traumatic.
Banana YoshimotoIf you donโt say what youโre thinking, you end up lying when you really need to speak up.
Banana YoshimotoI felt how important the simplest things were, like feeling proud, finding something funny, stretching yourself, retreating into yourself.
Banana YoshimotoThere are many, many difficult times, god knows. If a person wants to stand on her own two feet, I recommend undertaking the care and feeding of something. It could be children, or it could be house plants, you know? By doing that you come to understand your own limitations. That's where it starts.
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