The only thing a golfer needs is more daylight.
Control is the main thing, and the tee shot is the most important shot in golf. You've got to hit the fairway before you have a good chance of putting the ball close to the pin. You can be the greatest iron player in the world, but if you're in the boondocks it won't do you any good.
Selecting a stroke is like selecting a wife. To each his own.
Relax? How can anybody relax and play golf? You have to grip the club, don't you?
The greatest pleasure is obtained by improving.
Good golf begins with a good grip.