Control is the main thing, and the tee shot is the most important shot in golf. You've got to hit the fairway before you have a good chance of putting the ball close to the pin. You can be the greatest iron player in the world, but if you're in the boondocks it won't do you any good.
Why that would be like challenging Bing Crosby to a singing contest,wouldn't it
The only thing a golfer needs is more daylight.
The ultimate judge of your swing is the flight of the ball.
Selecting a stroke is like selecting a wife. To each his own.
Relax? How can anybody relax and play golf? You have to grip the club, don't you?