We would solve a lot of huge problems that are causing massive suffering. Poverty, violence, homophobia, heterosexism, racism, the environment - all these things that are crippling us. We need big, bold, dangerous, crazy ideas to solve these problems. When failure is not an option, innovation and creativity are not options.

Do you light up when your kids are coming in the room or do you become the instant critic?

It was scary. But it was so liberating. I thought, This is not predetermined - I get to choose. There are some days where I have to choose five times in a day. I had to make a choice when you called and the phone rang, whether I'm going to show up and be me, or whether I'm going to say what I think I'm supposed to say and get off the phone.

I now see how owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.

You can't get to courage without walking through vulnerability.

The willingness to show up changes us, It makes us a little braver each time.

You can’t dress rehearse the bad moments.