When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary. I see the fear of never feeling extraordinary enough to be noticed, to be lovable, to belong, or to cultivate a sense of purpose.

Cool is the emotional straightjacket. It makes us less available for connection which makes us less equipped for leadership roles.

I don't just want someone who says they love me; I want someone who practices that love for me every day.

We're a nation hungry for more joy: Because we're starving from a lack of gratitude.

There really is "no effort without error and shortcoming" and there really is no triumph without vulnerability.

The only unique contribution that we will ever make in this world will be born of our creativity.

I believe joy is a spiritual practice we have to work at.