Life is the constant opportunity to wake up.
When your son is healthy and happy, you're healthy and happy. And when your son is not healthy, let's say you're unhappy.
Fear is blind. There are some options in it, but they're very limited as compared to the options available to the fearless mind.
It makes sense that no one else can cause you pain. That's your job.
The world is what you believe it to be, and it changes as you change.
Trauma is nothing more than being stuck in what you believe.