Fear has only two causes: the thought of losing what you have or the thought of not getting what you want.
Byron KatiePlacing the blame or judgment on someone else leaves you powerless to change your experience; taking responsibility for your beliefs and judgments gives you the power to change them
Byron KatieThe nature of mind is that it loves everything once it loves itself, just as it opposes everything when it opposes itself.
Byron KatieWhen the creative mind is unleashed and understands its true nature, it's unlimited. There's nothing you cannot do.
Byron KatieNothing can cost you someone you love. The only thing that can cost you your husband is if you believe a thought. That's how you move away from him. That's how the marriage ends. You are one with your husband until you believe the thought that he should look a certain way, he should give you something, he should be something other than what he is. That's how you divorce him. Right then and there you have lost your marriage.
Byron Katie