If I had a prayer, it would be this: "God, spare me from the desire for love, approval, or appreciation. Amen."
Each time your mind changes your whole world is changed.
That's what I love about integrity. Each time we go inside, that's where it is.
So what is it with your mother that you haven't worked out yet?
I havent had a single thought for 26 years. I have only understanding. Its somewhat complicated to understand that. Ive hardly ever spoken about it. Youre in a state of total peace of mind. A kind of nirvana.
The way to truly help someone is for me to not get immersed in their suffering.