If you want real control, drop the illusion of control; let life have you. It does anyway. Youโre just telling yourself the story of how it doesnโt.
Byron KatieWhat I invite people to do is to look at their lives just the way that they have lived them. Not to change anything, and not to do positive thinking at all.
Byron KatieNo one has ever been able to control his thinking, although people may tell the story of how they have. I don't let go of my thoughts-I meet them with understanding. Then they let go of me.
Byron Katie