There's never a mistake in the universe. So if your partner is angry, good. If there are things about him that you consider flaws, good, because these flaws are your own, you're projecting them, and you can write them down, inquire, and set yourself free. People go to India to find a guru, but you don't have to: you're living with one. Your partner will give you everything you need for your own freedom.

For me, if somebody tells me to go away, that is an opportunity for me to give them a better life. And that's an opportunity for me to know and realize where not to be. It's an opportunity for me to see what could be better than being with that person I love.

Whenever you think that your needs are not being met, you’re telling the story of a future

The teacher you need is the person you're living with.

Every moment a gift: are you unwrapping yours now, and now, and now?

Everything that happens is God's will. When you realize that, you're home free.

I would go out into the desert. The desert was my teacher. I didn't know about gurus and wise people-I wasn't a reader.