There's never a mistake in the universe. So if your partner is angry, good. If there are things about him that you consider flaws, good, because these flaws are your own, you're projecting them, and you can write them down, inquire, and set yourself free. People go to India to find a guru, but you don't have to: you're living with one. Your partner will give you everything you need for your own freedom.

That's what I love about integrity. Each time we go inside, that's where it is.

Forgiveness is just another name for freedom.

When we're not defending and justifying, and we're being very still, our answers can and do shock us.

Fear is blind. There are some options in it, but they're very limited as compared to the options available to the fearless mind.

Who would you be if you didn't believe this lie?

I was clinically depressed. I was paranoid. I was agoraphobic. I would have days at a time of not being able to even bathe or brush my teeth.