There's never a mistake in the universe. So if your partner is angry, good. If there are things about him that you consider flaws, good, because these flaws are your own, you're projecting them, and you can write them down, inquire, and set yourself free. People go to India to find a guru, but you don't have to: you're living with one. Your partner will give you everything you need for your own freedom.

You might believe that it's only for their own good, but how does it feel when you try to manipulate the people you love? Are you teaching them that your love is conditional? Maybe through inquiry we can find another way.

I saw that we're all doing the best we can. This is how a lifetime of humility begins.

When you believe that your problem is caused by someone or something else, you become your own victim.

We don't attach to people or to things; we attach to uninvestigated concepts that we believe to be true in the moment.

Some of us are returning to sanity, because we're tired of the pain. We're in a hurry. No time to mess around.

Do you want to be right more than you want to know the truth? It's the truth that set me free. Acceptance, peace, and less attachment to a world of suffering are all effects of doing The Work. They're not the goals. Do The Work for the love of freedom, for the love of truth.