As you inquire into issues and turn judgments around, you come to see that every perceived problem appearing "out there" is really nothing more than a misperception within your own thinking.

So what is it with your mother that you haven't worked out yet?

Sometimes the concept you're questioning makes more sense to ask just the second one and not the first one.

It's just a constant thing when the mind starts to wake up to itself.

You can't have an up without a down. You can't have a left without a right. This is duality. If you have a problem, you must already have the solution. The question is, do you really want the solution, or do you want to perpetuate the problem?

The only time we suffer is when we believe a thought that argues with what is. When the mind is perfectly clear, what is is what we want.

There's no nightmare you can't wake yourself up from.