As long as you think that the cause of your problem is "out there" - as long as you think that anyone or anything is responsible for your suffering - the situation is hopeless. It means that you are forever in the role of victim, that youโre suffering in paradise.
Byron KatieWhen your son is healthy and happy, you're healthy and happy. And when your son is not healthy, let's say you're unhappy.
Byron KatieWe are never really in control. We just think we are when things happen to be going our way.
Byron Katie