You canโt have your daughter as long as you have a concept of her. When you get rid of the concept, you meet your daughter for the first time. Thatโs the way this works.
Byron KatieI am a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality. We can know that reality is good just as it is, because when we argue with it, we experience tension and frustration. We don't feel natural or balanced. When we stop opposing reality, action becomes simple, fluid, kind, and fearless.
Byron Katie