When you're operating on uninvestigated theories of what's going on and you aren't even aware of it, you're in what I call "the dream." Often the dream becomes troubling; sometimes it even turns into a nightmare. At times like these, you may want to test the truth of your theories by doing The Work on them. The Work always leaves you with less of your uncomfortable story. Who would you be without it? How much of your world is made up of unexamined stories? You'll never know until you inquire.
Byron KatieAny thought of discomfort or stress is an alarm that lets you know you're believing an untrue thought
Byron KatieOur job is unconditional love. The job of everyone else in our life is to push our buttons.
Byron Katie