Vowing, even intense vowing, is often useless. The next day comes and the next day goes. What works is making a vivid, concrete plan.
Carol S. DweckYour failures and misfortunes don't threaten other people. . .It's your assets and your successes that are problems for people who derive their self-esteem from being superior.
Carol S. DweckI believe ability can get you to the top,โ says coach John Wooden, โbut it takes character to keep you there.โฆ Itโs so easy to โฆ begin thinking you can just โturn it onโ automatically, without proper preparation. It takes real character to keep working as hard or even harder once youโre there. When you read about an athlete or team that wins over and over and over, remind yourself, โMore than ability, they have character.'
Carol S. Dweck