We like to think of our champions and idols as superheroes who were born different from us. We donโt like to think of them as relatively ordinary people who made themselves extraordinary.
Carol S. DweckDid I win? Did I lose? Those are the wrong questions. The correct question is: Did I make my best effort?โ If so, he says, โYou may be outscored but you will never lose.
Carol S. Dweck