I believe ability can get you to the top,โ says coach John Wooden, โbut it takes character to keep you there.โฆ Itโs so easy to โฆ begin thinking you can just โturn it onโ automatically, without proper preparation. It takes real character to keep working as hard or even harder once youโre there. When you read about an athlete or team that wins over and over and over, remind yourself, โMore than ability, they have character.'
Carol S. DweckThis point isโ .โ .โ .โ crucial,โ writes Dweck. โIn the fixed mindset, everything is about the outcome. If you fail โ or if youโre not the best โ itโs all been wasted. The growth mindset allows people to value what theyโre doing regardless of the outcome.
Carol S. DweckEffort is one of those things that gives meaning to life. Effort means you care about something, that something is important to you and you are willing to work for it.
Carol S. DweckIf parents want to give their children a gift, the best thing they can do is to teach their children to love challenges, be intrigued by mistakes, enjoy effort, and keep on learning. That way, their children donโt have to be slaves of praise. They will have a lifelong way to build and repair their own confidence.
Carol S. Dweck