Did I win? Did I lose? Those are the wrong questions. The correct question is: Did I make my best effort?โ If so, he says, โYou may be outscored but you will never lose.
Carol S. DweckIn a growth mindset, challenges are exciting rather than threatening. So rather than thinking, oh, I'm going to reveal my weaknesses, you say, wow, here's a chance to grow.
Carol S. Dweck