Don't judge. Teach. It's a learning process.

Choosing a partner is choosing a set of problems. There are no problem-free candidates.

Your failures and misfortunes don't threaten other people. . .It's your assets and your successes that are problems for people who derive their self-esteem from being superior.

Picture your brain forming new connections as you meet the challenge and learn. Keep on going.

The best thing parents can do is to teach their children to love challenges, be intrigued by mistakes, enjoy effort, and keep on learning.

The whole point of marriage is to encourage your partner's development and have them encourage yours.

Effort is one of those things that gives meaning to life. Effort means you care about something, that something is important to you and you are willing to work for it.