The ideal of helping is to make others independent of you. You help them to become more independent rather than making them addicted to you.
Chogyam TrungpaThe point is that whatever one is trying to learn, it is necessary to have firsthand experience, rather than learning from books or from teachers or by merely conforming to an already established pattern.
Chogyam TrungpaWhen we talk about compassion we talk in terms of being kind. But compassion is not so much being kind; it is being creative [enough] to wake a person up
Chogyam Trungpa