Even at the person-to-person level, to be universally liked is to be relatively ignored. To be disliked by some is to be loved all the more by others. And, specifically, a woman’s overall sex appeal is enhanced when some men find her ugly.

Use correct grammar and punctuation. Do not use net speak, like WOT, W-O-T or U. Those messages get a lot lower reply rate.

Even at the person-to-person level, to be universally liked is to be relatively ignored. To be disliked by some is to be loved all the more by others. And, specifically, a woman’s overall sex appeal is enhanced when some men find her ugly.

Because the way love works in general, you don't need everybody to like you somewhat - you need one person to like you a lot.

To be universally liked is to be relatively ignored.

Kind of paradoxically, men are very open minded or very even handed with their votes of women.

People tend to prefer their own race online in terms of the volume of messages.