Even at the person-to-person level, to be universally liked is to be relatively ignored. To be disliked by some is to be loved all the more by others. And, specifically, a woman’s overall sex appeal is enhanced when some men find her ugly.

Even at the person-to-person level, to be universally liked is to be relatively ignored. To be disliked by some is to be loved all the more by others. And, specifically, a woman’s overall sex appeal is enhanced when some men find her ugly.

Text is, in some ways, on the way out, unfortunately. There are dating sites now that are just pictures.

People tend to prefer their own race online in terms of the volume of messages.

Because the way love works in general, you don't need everybody to like you somewhat - you need one person to like you a lot.

I know that shorter messages are better in terms of reply rate. The optimal length is something like 50 characters. Characters, not words.

To be universally liked is to be relatively ignored.