I know that shorter messages are better in terms of reply rate. The optimal length is something like 50 characters. Characters, not words.
Christian RudderGoing to a site with more users seems obviously better to me, but at the same time, having a bland, middle of the road profile with bland, middle of the road pictures seems like a bad strategy to me.
Christian RudderUse correct grammar and punctuation. Do not use net speak, like WOT, W-O-T or U. Those messages get a lot lower reply rate.
Christian RudderBecause the way love works in general, you don't need everybody to like you somewhat - you need one person to like you a lot.
Christian Rudder