To be universally liked is to be relatively ignored.

Text is, in some ways, on the way out, unfortunately. There are dating sites now that are just pictures.

Women are much more discriminating. I think both types of people are equally interested in having an attractive partner. But women essentially give the thumbs up to only half as many guys as guys giving the thumbs up to women.

I know that shorter messages are better in terms of reply rate. The optimal length is something like 50 characters. Characters, not words.

Dudes have been making up stuff about themselves probably since there have been dudes.

Kind of paradoxically, men are very open minded or very even handed with their votes of women.

Because the way love works in general, you don't need everybody to like you somewhat - you need one person to like you a lot.