This is why I loved the support groups so much, if people thought you were dying, they gave you their full attention. If this might be the last time they saw you, they really saw you. Everything else about their checkbook balance and radio songs and messy hair went out the window. You had their full attention. People listened instead of just waiting for their turn to speak. And when they spoke, they weren't just telling you a story. When the two of you talked, you were building something, and afterward you were both different than before.
Chuck PalahniukThe difference between how you look and how you see yourself is enough to kill most people. And maybe the reason vampires donโt die is because they can never see themselves in photographs or mirrors.
Chuck Palahniuk