If the basic human nature was aggressive, we would have been born with animal claws & huge teeth -- but ours are very short, very pretty, very weak! That means we are not well equipped to be aggressive beings. Even the size of our mouth is very small. So I think the basic nature of human beings should be gentle.
Dalai LamaDon't use Buddhism to become a Buddhist. Use Buddhism to become better at whatever else in your life you are doing already.
Dalai LamaLike the lotus which thrives in mud, the potential for realization grows in the rich soil of everyday life
Dalai Lama