If you don't love yourself, you cannot love others. You will not be able to love others. If you have no compassion for yourself then you are not able of developing compassion for others.
Dalai LamaThe practicing of loving kindness toward one's enemy is the ultimate test of one's own spiritual attainment.
Dalai LamaSpiritual practice . . . involves, on the one hand, acting out of concern for others' well-being. On the other, it entails transforming ourselves so that we become more readily disposed to do so.
Dalai LamaThe more we think of others, the happier we are. The more we think of ourselves, the more suffering we feel.
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