My dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay neighborhoods were desperate, depressing, sad places run by the mob. The only gay people he'd met when I came out to him were corpses.

Today's unspeakable perversion is tomorrow's kink, is next week's good clean fun

But it doesn't matter what you're doing, it matters how you're doing it.

Really, when it comes to gay rights, there's two wars going on. The first war is political. But the culture war is over.

Bisexuals need to recognize that their being closeted is a huge contributing factor to the hostility they face.

Is it adultery if I’m committing it at one end of a guy and he’s committing it at the other end of that same guy?

There's a big mistake the left has made with talking to religious people, which is attempting to talk them out of their interpretations of the Bible, attempting to have theological debate with them. When I'm on right-wing whackjob radio, when people call up to inform me that I'm going to hell, I concede the point. "I'm going to hell. Yes. Can you leave me alone now?"