One man's blasphemy doesn't override other people's free-speech rights, their freedom to publish, freedom of thought.

Shouldn't homophobic politicians and anti-gay bullies be presumed to be gay until they get caught up in a straight sex scandal?

Relationships are monuments build on lies

The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous.

But it doesn't matter what you're doing, it matters how you're doing it.

the truth is often a mixed message

I started doing drag in Seattle because I started doing my column before I moved here, and then moved here and wanted to be able to go out and do things as Dan Savage without being recognized the next day, because the column was just in Seattle and it was kind of a sensation and I was beating people up. I was really worried and I didn't want to beat somebody up in a column and have that person know what I look like when I didn't know what they looked like.