Is it adultery if I’m committing it at one end of a guy and he’s committing it at the other end of that same guy?

Children have a right to some stability and constancy from the adults in their lives.

I started doing drag in Seattle because I started doing my column before I moved here, and then moved here and wanted to be able to go out and do things as Dan Savage without being recognized the next day, because the column was just in Seattle and it was kind of a sensation and I was beating people up. I was really worried and I didn't want to beat somebody up in a column and have that person know what I look like when I didn't know what they looked like.

A lot of kids are bullied because of their sexual identity or expression. It's often the effeminate boys and the masculine girls, the ones who violate gender norms and expectations, who get bullied.

I think it's going to take three or four generations of gay people being able to get married before it starts feeling less like we're going through these motions, that we're aping a heterosexual institution.

Relationships are monuments build on lies

I wouldn't say that holidays are manufactured by corporations, but they're certainly exploited and mined by them.