Don't mistake being an asshole for being a man.

I started doing drag in Seattle because I started doing my column before I moved here, and then moved here and wanted to be able to go out and do things as Dan Savage without being recognized the next day, because the column was just in Seattle and it was kind of a sensation and I was beating people up. I was really worried and I didn't want to beat somebody up in a column and have that person know what I look like when I didn't know what they looked like.

Take me to the driest county in the most conservative state, and in two hours this determined hedonist will find you all the drugs, whores, and booze you'll need to pass an eventful weekend.

But it doesn't matter what you're doing, it matters how you're doing it.

the truth is often a mixed message

Bisexuals need to recognize that their being closeted is a huge contributing factor to the hostility they face.

School is very conformist, and one of the very first conforming that goes on in preschool and kindergarten is gender.