Each additional day together is a gift. The end of the day means the end of hostilities, the recognition that the underlying shared values and commitment to the relationship trump the need for one last dig or self-righteous justification.

Often, the most enjoyable part of an activity is the anticipation.

I enjoy being active, but I look forward to the day when I can retire to the Internet.

Economists think about what people ought to do. Psychologists watch what they actually do.

Most things that couples disagree upon aren't worth more than a day's combat.

I would not advise people to buy a car or house without making a list. You will probably improve your intuitions by making a list and then sleeping on it.

Every night for the next week, set aside ten minutes before you go to sleep. Write down three things that went well today and why they went well...Writing about why the positive events in your life happened may seem awkward at first, but please stick with it for one week. It will get easier. The odds are that you will be less depressed, happier, and addicted to this exercise six months from now.