Where are you looking at blessing as bondage, something you GET to do as something you've GOT to do?
If you need all the answers to trust God, you are not really trusting God.
Jesus paid a high price for your peace. Don't give it away.
Getting offended is the bait of Satan for the believer.
A large oak tree is just a little nut that refused to give up.
The enemy takes what isn't his. Jesus gives from what is His. Which are you more like?