Where are you looking at blessing as bondage, something you GET to do as something you've GOT to do?
Every source of blessing is a point of attack.
A large oak tree is just a little nut that refused to give up.
If you need all the answers to trust God, you are not really trusting God.
Getting offended is the bait of Satan for the believer.
The enemy takes what isn't his. Jesus gives from what is His. Which are you more like?