What we spend, we lose. What we keep will be left for others. What we give away will be ours forever.
If you need all the answers to trust God, you are not really trusting God.
The enemy takes what isn't his. Jesus gives from what is His. Which are you more like?
We should be more concerned with reaching the lost than pampering the saved.
The Bible says we need to love our enemies, bless our enemies. It does not say we should assume our enemies' priorities.
Where are you looking at blessing as bondage, something you GET to do as something you've GOT to do?