The Bible says we need to love our enemies, bless our enemies. It does not say we should assume our enemies' priorities.
Getting offended is the bait of Satan for the believer.
Jesus paid a high price for your peace. Don't give it away.
If you need all the answers to trust God, you are not really trusting God.
Where are you looking at blessing as bondage, something you GET to do as something you've GOT to do?
Every source of blessing is a point of attack.