What we spend, we lose. What we keep will be left for others. What we give away will be ours forever.
Getting offended is the bait of Satan for the believer.
Where are you looking at blessing as bondage, something you GET to do as something you've GOT to do?
If you need all the answers to trust God, you are not really trusting God.
Every source of blessing is a point of attack.
We should be more concerned with reaching the lost than pampering the saved.