The Bible says we need to love our enemies, bless our enemies. It does not say we should assume our enemies' priorities.
Jesus paid a high price for your peace. Don't give it away.
We should be more concerned with reaching the lost than pampering the saved.
Getting offended is the bait of Satan for the believer.
The enemy takes what isn't his. Jesus gives from what is His. Which are you more like?
If you need all the answers to trust God, you are not really trusting God.