Where are you looking at blessing as bondage, something you GET to do as something you've GOT to do?
A large oak tree is just a little nut that refused to give up.
Getting offended is the bait of Satan for the believer.
The enemy takes what isn't his. Jesus gives from what is His. Which are you more like?
We should be more concerned with reaching the lost than pampering the saved.
Every source of blessing is a point of attack.