Where are you looking at blessing as bondage, something you GET to do as something you've GOT to do?
What we spend, we lose. What we keep will be left for others. What we give away will be ours forever.
The enemy takes what isn't his. Jesus gives from what is His. Which are you more like?
We should be more concerned with reaching the lost than pampering the saved.
A large oak tree is just a little nut that refused to give up.
If you need all the answers to trust God, you are not really trusting God.