Instead of looking for the right person become the right person.
Seeing yourself with the eyes of love makes it natural to see the Divine Spirit in everyone you meet.
Without transcendence, life has no beauty.
You know, religion itself, Eastern and Western, is divisive and quarrelsome anyway.
At the most subtle level, your inner intelligence is steadily progressing along the corridors of eternity.
Traditional Islam is a mixture of all obedience to Allah, and if that requires militancy, so be it.