When something bad happens you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you.
Dr. SeussSo be sure when you step, Step with care and great tact. And remember that life's A Great Balancing Act. And will you succeed? Yes! You will, indeed! (98 and ¾ percent guaranteed) Kid, you'll move mountains.
Dr. Seuss