You cannot find yourself by going into the past. You can find yourself by coming into the present.

Just as without silence there could be no sound, you would not exist without the vital formless dimension that is the essence of who you are.

When you are in touch with that dimension within yourself-and being in touch with it is your natural state, all your actions and relationships will reflect the oneness with all life that you sense deep within. This is love. Laws, commandments, rules and regulations are necessary for those who are cut off from who they are, the Truth within.

All it takes is a simple choice, a simple decision: no matter what happens, I will create no more pain for myself. I will create no more problems.

All you realy need to do is accept this moment fully. You are then at ease in the here and now and at ease with yourself.

As far as inner transformation is concerned, there is nothing you can do about it. You cannot transform yourself, and you certainly cannot transform your partner or anybody else. All you can do is create a space for transformation to happen, for grace and love to enter.

The habit patterns of the human mind are very strong and make it seem that the hard way is easy and the easy way is hard.