The biggest problem is that people want to tell the whole story, and they write letters that are way longer than anything I could possibly run.

An alcoholic 47-year-old woman with teenagers who thinks a guy in his mid-20s is a good prospect as a partner definitely has some judgment and character flaws.

I am against lying, but just because someone asks a question does not mean you have to answer it.

Children need adult men in their lives.

I know this is awkward, but when you laugh after almost everything you say, it ends up undermining you.

I counseled a 75-year-old married, bi-sexual man who was having a gay affair and was not having sex with his wife to continue his secret life because that seemed like the kindest thing to do. But a young woman embarking on married life, hoping to start a family with her husband, needs to at least know he's already living a double life.

Once an affair is over, the cheaters need to agree not to see each other anymore in order to reestablish trust with their spouses.