Once an affair is over, the cheaters need to agree not to see each other anymore in order to reestablish trust with their spouses.

Accept the fact that life presents us with opportunities to find more than one "one", and that you have learned a mighty life lesson when the next one comes along.

Love is not shown by giving your toddler a car. It's better demonstrated by clapping as she bangs on pots or singing to her while she plays with her cheap little bath toys in the tub.

I counseled a 75-year-old married, bi-sexual man who was having a gay affair and was not having sex with his wife to continue his secret life because that seemed like the kindest thing to do. But a young woman embarking on married life, hoping to start a family with her husband, needs to at least know he's already living a double life.

I have people close to me who ask my advice just as I ask theirs.

The biggest problem is that people want to tell the whole story, and they write letters that are way longer than anything I could possibly run.

When you have a life milestone happen, it's good to step back and reassess the things you thought you knew about yourself.